Let’s Normalize Mixed Emotions

LET’S NORMALIZE FEELING DIFFERENT EMOTIONS AT THE SAME TIME ♥️

When I met my chapter 2, I was not mentally prepared to meet someone. I was nowhere near ready to be romantic with another man other than my husband, the man I’d been with for over fifteen years. Meeting Adam came at the most unexpected time.

I felt scared and actually mad at myself for feeling these feelings. I went through a period of time where I couldn’t eat or sleep because I was so upset I felt this way about someone.

I WAS ALSO REALLY CONFUSED

How can I still love my husband, be actively grieving, AND have feelings for someone else????

Well, maybe you’re in this situation, or you know someone who is. And it IS possible.

It is absolutely real to be grieving and feel emotions and love towards someone new at the same time.

This needs to be normalized. Because it’s normal. You’re not wrong, and you’re not insensitive if this is happening to you or if it has happened to you.

It’s kind of like this… when you have a second child you don’t stop loving the first.

SAVE this blog for when you need to be reminded it’s ok to feel all the feelings at the same time ♥️ Or share with someone who is struggling with their emotions after loss ♥️